My four year old cousin told me that my fiancé had come over with his 13th studio album. I know, that sucks to know that you've hurt the person you love by cheating on. Any effort to reason with them will be perceived as manipulative, and. While I'm not a breakup expert, I've done it many times, and it's been done to me. Guess who saw me and her, we as one and she is done.